Dualistic Nature in Buddhism
Recently, I participated in a Green Tara retreat at Garrison Institute led by Gyalwa Dokhampa Rinpoche.
I am amazed by Buddhist teachings, particularly their insights into psychology and guidance on ethical living and discipline.
Rinpoche mentioned, that being born in the samara, places us in an intricate web of Karma which consists of cause and conditions, and becomes part of our lives.
In Buddhism, we practice non-dualistic perception. Everything is seen as Buddha-nature without discrimination. To have a dualistic view is to have two opposing views, good and bad, right and wrong, and evil and righteous, to get rid of opposing views is called non-dualistic.
The circumstances of our birth, including our parents, environment, and community are all influenced by Karma. To be born under a favorable cause and condition is influenced by the good Karma we have accumulated.
It is easy to get overwhelmed trying to accumulate good karma and not be involved in actions that put us in a position to accumulate bad karma.
I am in a space where I can reflect on the past and think about how situations have influenced the current moment. With age, I have begun to trust my intuition which translates to knowledge and wisdom that I have accumulated from this life and life before.
I believe our core personality is framed when we are young, and the life we are living now is a reflection of that. I am not saying situations cannot be changed but rather we are influenced by how we are raised. My principles were already setting their foundation due to factors like family, environment, and community. My principles have grown in convictions and depth and morphed into a giant magnet that catapults my actions going forward.
“Without the foundation and belief in karma, everything will become ritual and tradition. Every aspect of our life, every action we do from body, speech, and mind is karma.” -Gyalwa Dokhampa Rinpoche
My approach towards life holds strong altruistic views. I see myself as a woman leading a life guided by principles and values. Although I don’t let a dualist perspective create obstacles I vehemently condemn unethical actions, dishonesty, bringing disharmony, speaking ill of others, and causing emotional and physical harm. If an action doesn’t align with my principles and values then it cannot be associated with me in any shape or form.
Human relations although often a place of solace can also be a battleground for me. Growing up trying to navigate through the complexities of figuring out genuine intentions and who was just there for a season was difficult. When young I was inflexible and now I tend to overlook things just to keep things cordial. My sensitivity sometimes is a place of struggle. I don’t know the best way to cater to my needs and wants. However, one cannot remain naive. It’s important to set some boundaries, have principles, and values, and have discipline without those I think human life becomes purposeless.
To practice non-dualism and to take the middle path is the essence of true freedom.
